Is it your behavior that decides your character? Or is character is a too big to be decided by a person's behavior?
Being polite, how you act in a group, how you act when you are outside, it all comes in behavior, right? I guess how a person behave DOES tell about that person's character. So I am concluding for now.
But then this is not exactly what I wanted to talk about... How should one behave? Should he/she be serious and think of being proper and perfect in the society and hardly let him/herself loose? Or should he/she let him/herself be loose all the time? Best solution i see, is a mixture of both. Should know where to be what.. In short, should know how to 'behave'.
But then, still, if that person is loose all the time, is that how his character is? If a girl is loose, why is her character seen in the wrong way? Why cant she be loose all the time? If she laughs a lot with a guy, why is her character wrong? Can't they be just friends? Or she's allowed to do that only with her brothers. Why cant she still be bubbly even after she crosses 25?
I don't understand this society. Whats the point in behaving yourself all the while, if you cant enjoy your life at all? We then end up thinking, "am I behaving well?" most of the time, instead of enjoying... (Its like we end up stressing and thinking more on the rules, than just enjoying a game) , we end up Kids are not seen that way, cos they are kids and we are grown up! And you no longer can be a kid/kiddish when you grow up...
Hell! These rules are too much! Why can't people let a person just be him/herself and enjoy his/her life in his way and enjoy theirs in their way? I can't understand why they are so much into others life than their own!
Stupid society and their stupider rules!
