Never Hurt Again!

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

( read this very nice article on TOI. It was on how to deal when you are hurt. A nice piece. Very good advice. But VERY difficult to follow. And if we do follow it, life's heaven! (I'll post the article once I find it))

We've got hurt. Hurt so many times that we start loosing the count of it. It has become a part of our life and we have accepted it.When we are hurt we are in the most pessimistic state that we could never have believed. Believed that we would get so low and depressed that the thoughts of suicide come into the picture.

In that state of being just hurt, we tend to bring in the thoughts of when we were hurt before, whatever worst had ever happened to us, whatever had broken us down the most... It all gets mixed up and tends to flame us up to the worst level as ever and then starts the pessimism. And then the state of ending something beautiful and loosing so many precious time of being in the state of happiness!! So much is lost... (But no regrets! Should be free of that!)

The best thing to do then is when you are hurt bout something not to bring other negetive thoughts in our mind. We mix up two different situations of the same emotion, cos we tend to be like that when we're hurt. So next time someone hurts you, deal with that. Not to sit and cry over that problem and mix other things up! Think about what had happend with a cool head when you cool down.

Or the best thing is, just dont give any damn to it. Forget it. Its difficult I know. But then why waste tears over someone and wear our heart out?? In the end, we're always on our own. Born alone, dying alone. No one actually cares bout a person. No one. Everyone has "I" first then you. Very few people who dont have that thing in them.

So, next time when you are hurt, DONT mix up the emotion of something else with this feeling. If you react to that person's behavior, then that person has achieved what he want to get. Disturb your life.
After all its your life. You're the king of your own life. You rule it. It will be as you take it. You mould it. You give it life by breathing every second. Its simple if you keep everything simple or a pure torture!

(I've added my own things, but has a general idea of what that article wanted to convey.)